Monday, January 14, 2008

Understanding Students: What every teacher should know?

Every school has defined its vision-mission. However, one very important thing to consider is that the school needs take into account on how to alleviate the learning of the students in helping them develop all the aspect of their lives. Teaching is not only limited to develop the cognitive aspect but also consider the other aspects such as emotional, moral, psychological, social, physical and spiritual, thus, leading to the holistic development of the students.

With the present demands of time students are now having a lot of influences contributing factors to students’ complexities of exhibited behavior. Influences from the media, peers and family are prevalent to the student’s way of life. Such, challenges in teaching occur and a lot of development progressed as we embrace the highly technological world. Students behave in such a manner that is totally different than what was before. They are pre-occupied to run after with the so called “in-thing” of life even to the extent of losing their most priority which is to study. They lost interest and their attention is divided. When problem arises particularly family problem, they lack the capacity to handle with confidence that they will be able to rationalize this is just part of the game of life. They need to be equipped with techniques and strategies to fight against all the ups and downs of life.

With all these challenges, a philosophy which inquired about the nature of human being is highly needed in order to understand why students behave this way and that way. This is also relevant to address as to what kind of instruction is needed in order to foster students’ holistic development not only in school but in their respective families.

My Philosophy is anchored on the concept that it is the systematic study of life and the universe as a whole in order to frame a logical and necessary system of general idea so that every element of human experience may be interpreted. Students might be exhibiting inappropriate behavior but there might be reasons for doing so. To really understand the students’ complex behavior, it is important to dig into the root cause of the problem before jumping into conclusion. As what Aristotle said that “the end of education is not knowledge alone. It is the union of the innate intellect of the individual and his will. It is knowledge expressed action”. Their behavior might not be appropriate but it is just a mere expression of their innate needs to express what they feel inside. Student’s behavior might be very hard to understand but it is just a product of their day-to-day experiences in life. It is the schematic frame of reference that molds their behavior as they interact with others and as they experienced things around them.

As far as relating to student is concerned, teachers need to identify the student’s needs and its present situation at home. Their home is considered as the pillar of their development. If they have unpleasant experiences at home I always believe that it will affect their life not only on how they relate and interact to their family but also to others. Teachers need to understand that students’ behavior is just a product of their own experiences in life, their upbringing at home, the kind of environment the he/she lives and the kind of people he/she interact on a daily basis.

Likewise, during instruction I always believe that teachers must be focused on the process rather than theoretical inputs. Teachers must engage students into highly critical discussions, giving them avenue to discover and learn on their own thus making logical judgments. Students are made to realize the effects of their actions by facilitating effectively leading to value clarification and modification, thus making them responsible for their actions and prized the values acquired without inhibitions according to the generally acceptable behavior. I always believe that students need to be challenged intellectually, emotionally, socially, psychologically and etc. They lose interest if their teachers are not challenging during class discussions leading them to question the competencies of their teachers. In general a teacher needs to be well rounded and fully equipped with expertise to stimulate all the senses of his /her students to make it fully functional.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Is Love Enough Gauge? by Juliet S

"When hunger strikes, love flies out of the window". This powerful statement is the most common line I heard when difficulties strike in the family. This is a fact and not a joke as I have observe from people and those who venture into married life at an early age. Most of them really have difficulty going through their married life especially when they produce many kids. At first they believe that love is enough for the union. I think differently. The readiness from both side is very necessary, whether physically, psychologically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.

Physical readiness is not an indication that you should possess the 36-24-36 vital statistics so that you will look sexy wearing your best dress for a lifetime. But it is more than an outward manifestation. How are you going to make it a "happily ever" after kind of story depends on the goals you set for your marriage. One of the reasons why a husband left his wife is because she lacks something. What is that something? It can be the ability to care, to manage the household, to love, to share, and to make both of you happy in and outside of your exotic chamber. As the song of the Spice Girls goes, " Cause Tonight is the Night When Two become One" . Sexual union is the expression of how both of you love and long for each other after the hard days work. If one has a happy sexual life of course it will lead to a happy married life. That's why when I once asked a man the kind of woman he wanted to have in life he said, "someone who is hotter than me" (a wife should be hotter than her husband)..... Its a wow but maybe it can help. The comptibility of your body chemistry will matter and how both of you ignite both of your passion to keep it burning.

Being emotionally and psychologically ready is an important factor to consider. Of course married life is not after all always a happy union. Problems or shall I say challenges exist and these are things that cannot be separated in any relationship. It is always there present in order to provide both of you an avenue to renew your love for each other thus provide you a glue to make your relationship stick.

Why is it important to be spiritually ready? Of course putting God at the center of any relationship is a duty that one should not miss. This is the spiritual obligations of a Christian. When you are asked to draw a house, first you draw a triangular form, what does this imply? Triangle has three sides and three corners. If you put yourself into this context,God, you and your partner occupy the three sides/corners. He is at the center holding both of your hands. Maybe He is holding you in His left hand and your partner in His right hand. If the three of you hold each other's arms, there's is a strong bond. There's one thing so certain: God will never let go both of your hold. In a situation that you and your partner will loose its hold and if one perseveres to have it back, God is there to help both of you to be connected with each other again.

What about financial stability? Practically speaking, this is also important. This is not a fundamental gauge in success for marriage but it can provide weapon to give you comfort in life. Remove one from its readiness , I'm sure it can create burden and even more challenges in the family. This is why sometimes when hunger pangs strike in the family love flies out of the window. So you begin to wonder where love have gone?

The Beauty of Life... by Juliet S

Life in the 21st century is so complicated...You cannot get all the things you always wanted. The reality of life is really devastating,sometimes frustrating and even mind breaking. But whatever it is given by God, you have to embrace the fact and make the most out of it. Things you always wanted to happen in life are not always what God has always wanted from us. He has the best design of everything though we have our own life plan and map. This is not sufficient since we cannot forsee what lies ahead for only God knows everything. He is the best anchor to cling on because He has the wisdom to iron things out.

Life has a lot of ups and downs, twists and turns, and has lot of direction and choices that you are going to take. You need to use wise judgement to decide as to what path to take and which way is the best and which is not. Either you have to use your heart over head or the other way around or even both. When you decide, you have a lot of factors to consider. You have to see if it cannot hurt other people. It can be the best way for other people or for yourself. Following what you wanted to happen in life is very difficult. It takes a lot of soul-searching before you will be able to come up with the right decision. Otherwise, it will affect other people even hurting their feelings.

Hurting others' feelings is not easy especially you have seen the effort and the kind of emotional investment that person is having, just to prove that his feelings and intentions are really true and that he is sincere with you. Those are the kind of people who are true to themselves. But how about those people who are afraid the light and always want to live in the dark? Do you think they deserve to be condemned or can we blame them? Can we say that we have to bring them in line on the firing squad and shoot them for their cowardice? They may have their own reasons. We don't have the right to judge them since we haven't had a glimpse of the kind of experiences they had gone through and what choices they wanted to have in their lives. They have also their own crossroads and may not be the same crossroads we will be crossing...

This is the beauty of life. It is as complicated more than you can imagine but with God's guidance life's journey will become an easy way thus, you will be able to surpass all the crossroads, roughroads, the curves, and blind alleys of your journey ...

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Food for Your Frustrated Heart

For as long as there is tommorow, I will be here.
For as long as you need me in your life, I'll be with you.
For as long as you want me with you, I will never leave you.
Just love me and I will continue loving you...
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While waiting for the right person to come to your life,
play and have fun with the wrong one.
But be careful with who you play with because that person
might be the one for you...
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Its better to lose your pride to someone you love than to lose your love because of your pride.
Be brave to fight for it and face it before you will realize what a great lose you had.
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In times of darkness love sees.
In times of silence love hears.
In times of doubts love hopes.
In times of sorrows love heals.
In old times love remembers...
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There's only one thing in this world worth taking,
its the risk of getting hurt when you fall in love
cause the joy of being in love is worth all the pain...
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You learn to like someone when you found out
what makes them laugh.
But you can never truly love someone until you found out
what makes them cry.....
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Love 'till it hurts and when it hurts, love some more.
And when it hurts some more, love even more.
And when it hurts even more, love 'till it hurts no more...
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Love is giving people due space
to be exactly who they are
and who they are not...
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True love is when you are asked how long you have known him.
Your response would be in your heart,
you've known him for a lifetime, it just took too long to find him...
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If I couldn't spend every second of my life beside you;
then I would rather waste every second of it,
looking at you from the sky than be with someone else
but still dreaming of you....
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No thoughts can hurt as much as the thought
of the love that could have been.
And no love can hurt as much
as the love that can never be...
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Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person...
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All of us has an ideal perfect MR. RIGHT.
But we often end up with someone totally
opposite but still very much perfect for us...

Monday, January 8, 2007

CORNY Corner: Laughter is free

The following are just a collection of article that could tickle your emotion...its free to smile so if you feel like don't stop yourself...

*NEWFLASH!!! Three smart monkeys on the loose..
No. 1 was found in the library;
No. 2 was found using the computer; and luckily
No. 3 was caught browsing this site....(smile)

* What is a kiss?
Its an uptown shopping for a downtown business.
Kiss is an upper persuasion for a lower invasion...

* Don't forget the two most important things to do when when you wake up:
1. Pray so that you may live and
2. Brush your teeth so that others may live too!!!!

* Please don't send me cheap messages cause I come from a rich family...
My parents are in the steel and iron industry...My mom irons and my dad steals...

* Three Stages of Life:
First, when you have time and energy but no money.
Second, when you have the money and energy but no time.
Third, when have all the time and money but no energy!!!hmmmmmmmm

* What are the symbolic bird?
For peace........... Dove
for birth............ Stork
for love ...........Love birds
for aggression .......... Eagle
for death ................Vulture
for knowledge........Owl and
for Birth Control............its Swallow....(smile)

* Survey present the result on what married men do after love making..
Result reveals that:
10 % turn to their side and sleep
10 % go to the CR and
80 % put on their clothes and go home to thier wife!!! wowwwwwwwww

Hope you enjoy reading these...SMILE...






The Bend in the Road by Helen Steiner Rice

Sometimes we come to life's crossroads,
And we view what we think is the end,
But God has a wider version,
And He knows its only a bend-

The road will go on and get smoother,
And after we've stopped for a rest,
The path that lies hidden beyond us,
Is often the path that is best.

So rest and relax and grow stronger,
Let go and let God share your load,
And have faith in the brighter tommorow,
You've just come to the bend in the road.

How to Find Happiness by Helen Steiner Rice

Happiness is something you create in your mind;
Not something you search forbut can't seem to find;
Not something that's purchased with silver or gold;
Not something that force can capture and hold.

It's just waking up and beginning each day;
By counting your blessing and kneeling to pray;
It's giving up thoughts that breed discontent;
And accepting what comes as a gift heaven-sent.

It's giving up and wishing for things you have not;
And making the best of whatever you've got;
Its knowing that life is determined and planned;
And God's holds the world in the palm of HIS hand.

And its by completing that God gives you to do;
That you find contentment and happiness too.